What if we thought of ageing the way we think of a house we want to live in for the rest of our lives? A home that needs thoughtful design, because once built, it shapes everything inside it. For older adults, the city around them becomes their house. Its pathways, parks, services and connections form the foundation on which their independence rests.
Many Indian cities are slowly moving towards this kind of design. The change is not everywhere or perfect, but the shift has begun. Some elders are already exploring these improved spaces with confidence, while others, especially those with mobility challenges, still find the world outside uneven or intimidating. Understanding this helps us support them better.
Independence as the Foundation of Age Friendly Cities
Every good house begins with a strong base. For elders, that foundation is independence. It includes the ability to make choices, manage routines and move around with dignity.
Today, more cities are introducing features that support this. Wider footpaths, fewer kerb drops, ramps in public buildings, resting benches, accessible toilets and smoother gradients are gradually becoming part of urban landscapes. These changes may not be everywhere yet, but they mark a positive direction.
Some parents may be comfortable stepping out on their own. Others may hesitate because of balance issues, recent falls or unfamiliar surroundings. You can help by:
- Asking a neighbour, relative or care team to accompany them until they feel confident
- Sharing simple information about nearby senior-friendly parks or markets
- Requesting photos or videos of safe routes, so you can guide them from afar
Health and Financial Security Supporting Elder Stability
A well-designed house has strong walls. For older adults, these walls are health and financial security. They provide stability and keep life steady, even when circumstances shift.
Cities are slowly adding structures that make this side of ageing smoother. Low-floor buses, lifts in metro stations, designated seats for seniors, geriatric units in hospitals and digital queues make access easier. But many elders still struggle to use these systems confidently, especially those who cannot walk long distances or are not comfortable with digital tools.
You can support them by:
- Mapping the nearest and most accessible hospitals, labs and pharmacies
- Helping them book appointments online or arrange teleconsultations
- Setting up digital payments to reduce their need to carry cash
- Finding predictable transport options, such as trusted drivers or comfortable routes
People, Places and Purpose: The Windows and Doors
Every house feels alive when it has open windows and welcoming doors. These are the parts that let in fresh air, connection and joy. In the lives of elders, this means people, places and purpose.
Cities with parks, walking loops, senior activity corners, libraries and community centres open up opportunities for meaningful engagement. Some older adults can travel independently to these spaces, while others may prefer short, gentle outings close to home.
Encourage them to:
- Visit their favourite temples or familiar markets
- Spend time in community parks or gardens
- Join hobby groups or informal social circles
- Use public transport for light outings if they feel comfortable
In small doses, these activities help them stay mentally active and emotionally nourished.
The Barriers Parents Still Face
Even with progress, many elders hesitate to step out because real obstacles remain. These include:
- Uneven pavements
- Poor lighting at night
- Unpredictable traffic
- Older buildings without lifts
- Difficulty navigating digital systems
- Lack of companionship or support for outdoor movement
For parents with mobility issues, these barriers can feel even larger and sometimes prevent them from going beyond familiar rooms or corridors.
Turning Barriers Into Bridges
Families can help create an environment that feels safer and more supportive. You can:
- Plan a weekly outing routine, even if it is a short walk
- Check that common routes are well-lit and comfortable
- Pair outings with meaningful tasks such as buying vegetables or visiting a temple
- Set up easy-to-use digital tools on their phone
- Encourage small, local social connections
- Address fears gently so they regain confidence step by step
If you live abroad or cannot be physically present, Samarth can assist. We accompany elders on walks or errands, help them navigate their neighbourhood, support digital tasks and ensure safe mobility. In this way, the city around them becomes more welcoming and less overwhelming.
A Way Forward for Confident Ageing in Our Cities
Ageing well is not about creating something grand. It is about building a balanced home where safety and freedom coexist, and where life continues to feel open and meaningful. Cities are beginning to offer the elements needed for such a home. With thoughtful support from families, older adults can live in a world that feels stable, familiar and full of possibility.
Take the first step and speak with the Samarth team to see how we can help your parents feel confident and supported right where they are.
